Amber Rose Pens Op-Ed: How I Learned To Stop Caring What People Think

Amber Rose has penned a powerful op-ed for Time magazine after insults were thrown her way due to a Twitter fight between Kanye West and Wiz Khalifa.  In the series of Tweets that Kanye unleashed yesterday he called out Amber for being a stripper in the past and also decided to bring her son into the battle. That was when Amber decided that enough was enough and she stood up for herself.

Knowing that Twitter wouldn’t be enough she decided to write a powerful piece on how she is treated by people on social media and even by actual media outlets.

Ever since high school, I’ve been called a slut. All the boys were attracted to me—that wasn’t my fault! Then, when I started getting famous, the shaming got even worse. All these messed up stories came out about me, and I was like, “That’s not true! I’m not that kind of girl!” But even things I had done—things a man would never be judged for—got me lots of hate.

After my ex-husband Wiz Khalifa and I got a divorce, I’d go out for a date at a restaurant like any normal single human and people would say, “Man, she’s such a ho. She’s out at restaurants with guys.” Then they would see my ex-husband with a bunch of women. They would say, “He’s the man! That’s so cool.” So when I went on a date, I’m a whore, and when he’s piling girls in a car, he’s the man? There’s something wrong here.

It wasn’t just men saying these types of things. There were a lot of women saying hateful things to me. I was getting torn down constantly. But in the past year, I’ve just started not caring.

People would actually say things like, “Who would ever love you? You were a stripper. Why are you in relationships?” And I used to feel like I had to explain that maybe it was because I’m a good person.

But I realized that I can’t make everyone believe. And I can’t talk to everyone and tell them who I really am. They’re still going to have their own opinions. If you know me, you love me. If you don’t know me, you might love me, but you might not—and that’s cool. And you know what? Now I sleep like a baby at night.

It wasn’t even that hard to stop caring what other people thought. I wasn’t married, and I didn’t have a boyfriend so I didn’t have to care about anyone else’s feelings or protect anyone’s heart. I thought, “This is my life. This is about me. If you don’t like it, I don’t care. I’m going to do anything and everything I want with my own life.”

What I’ve realized is that, when you care too much, you’re not living at your full potential. When you really stop caring about what people say, that’s when you really start living. It’s such an amazing feeling. It’s about loving who you are, owning who you are and knowing that it’s O.K. to live your life how you want to live it. We’re all human, which means we’re not all perfect. It’s so cool to think that I might help women think about who they want to be and then encourage them to be that person with no remorse. I want to help women just be happy in their own skin.

So please: Before you judge someone—especially another woman—put yourself in her shoes and also look at your past. That’s what a lot of women fail to do. They’re so quick to call another girl names, but it’s like: You know what? There may have been a time where you looked back and said, “I probably shouldn’t have done that.” Does that make you a ho? No, it makes you a human.

All that I can say is good for you Amber because it is true. People have tried to drag this woman through the mud for embracing her sexuality. The double standard in this country, and through out the world is truly insane.

Amber I stand behind you with this powerful essay and although there will be backlash, understand that you have been able to truly reach people with your message.

You can’t let people disrespect you and you have to stand up for yourself, remember that.

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Miley Cyrus will win TIME magazine Person of the Year


Miley can’t stop and she won’t stop! She is leading the polls right now in the vote for TIME magazine’s person of the year and I know why! Miley has a big gay fan base, everyone knows it. Know who she is up against? Well a few people I don’t know and fucking Vladimir Putin! That Russian dictator who is all against gay rights, so obviously he isn’t going to win.

May I also say that I just voted for Miley Cyrus and it was between her and Jimmy Fallon, fucking really? Jimmy Fallon is so fucking annoying I would cry if I saw him on the cover of this damn magazine. Would he do a weird impression then a weird dance and then have Justin Timberlake on the cover with him? Probably.

Can you imagine if she wins though? I always thought that TIME magazine was a respected magazine that old people loved to read but with Miley on the cover, it will probably be its biggest seller right? It is just so fucking hilarious. I would love to see that bleach blonde bitch with her tongue sticking on out the cover of that magazine.

Miley can’t stop, she won’t stop, this is Miley’s world and we are just living it.